Gay? Married?

I personally don't understand why people are so against gay people getting married. I mean honestly what is the big deal. Do we have to deal with their marriages?, no. so whats the big deal they aren't hurting anyone. I mean if god was real as long as people are good people why wouldn't they go to "heaven". I say if you care about what they do get a life and start worrying about your own marriage. maybe that whey some people give a crap so much because they aren't married and no ones wants them so everyone has to suffer. Are you upset because the gays are taking all the good husbands or wives. I thinks it kind of humorous to think that people care about someones opinions who may not even exist. Has anyone ever seen god to ask him what he thinks about gay marriage and where in the bible does it say gay people don't have the right to marry. I know it says that marriage is for a man and women. Well there are gay women and gay men so that's that. Some people think a wedding between a man and a women is sacred, do those same people realize that the divorce rate is over 50%. Oh yeah marriage is definitely something people Cherish.

Gays just want the same rights as everyone else just like black people. Blacks can vote but gays can't get married, come on now. I think it's sad that if two gay people are a couple and one of them gets into a car crash and become s a veggie and their significant other knows that the would want the machines keeping them alive to be turned off the doctor would listen to a family member that has no clue oppose to the person that know. Which mean if the parent says keep those machines on and that's not really want they want that's doesn't matter because they are family.

Gays are going to be together weather people like it or not so we might as well just let them get Married... and on that note why is it our decision in the first place we're all Democratic and freedom of speech and all. So we can say whatever we want but we can't marry who every we want. Ok, how is that in any way shape or form right. I just think people really need to mind their on business if that's what makes people happy let them go. You should be able to marry anyone you want if your in love with them or they make you happy no matter the sex. Get over it people homosexuality is never goong I repeat NEVER going to go away.

STUPID DOG

Ok I don't know if other people have this problem but my dog likes to eat things. For example. wore underwear, pens, glue, anything with a smell, wood, paper baby wipes. you name it she'll eat it. Well yesterday I went to the store a bought a pound of brown sugar in a bag for cookies. she ate the whole bag of sugar lat night while i was sleeping. Now I know what you going to say..."where was it that she could get to it" It was on the floor in the grocery bag. I never thought that she would go into the bag and get it out. Ahh but I should know better right. I came down from upstairs to find vomit all over her bed oh and vomit all over my couch yes . not i cleaned that up put her but outside ,where she stayed for a couple of hours, then went into the basement out the cushion covers in the wash and put her but in the cage, where she stayed the rest of the day. She was only allowed to come out to eat drink and got to the bathroom. So I left her in there and went out shopping and to my in laws for dinner. What do I find when I come home. Vomit on the bad that was in her cage, she has two, Oh yes I was not a happy camper. What a dumb freaking dog. She would eat stuff a lot when she was a puppy and then she got really good with it and stopped. We had a baby and it all went down hill. Now she does something everyday. It drives me up a wall. I don't know what to do with her I mean aside from putting her in a cage when I leave thiers really nothing I can do about it.

I don't know if it's more my fault for leaving the stuff where she can get it or her fault because she should know better. I can't put everything out of her reach She ate the corner to my entertainment center how do you put that out of her reach so she can't chew it I mean come on. I feel bad because it makes me want to get rid of her but I couldn't do that. I just really don't know what to do. I hope everyone else is having a better day then I am right now see ya tobie♥

Christmas is coming

7 days till christmas. every year my husband gets me great gifts and I never know what they will. I don't know how he does it but I'm going to have to get a couple of hints because I am really bad when it comes to things like that. I get so excited baout giveing them to people that I always ruin the suprise and I;m also really bad about hiding things so they usually findout about it. for example, I threw My husband a suprise going away party. The key wod there being suprise. Well i sent out an eamil and I didn't take his name off of the email list and he got the emial. Yeah Like i siad before I'm not good with computers lol.

I hope I get nice things for christmas even though it's not all about the presents it's nice to get the things you need and ask for. My husband told me not to get him anything but I got him a little something anyway. hope everyone is safe and happy see ya Tobie

COMPUTER SAVY

I never really thought of starting a blog before. I alway thought why would anyone, other then myself of coarse, want to know about my life, and my thoughts. But then I found myself checking out my friends blogs and I relized that I was interested in what was going on with them so there must be someone out there thats interested in where my life is going.

So here we go my very first blog... What do people normaly talk about on these things Im sure there is a blog 101 out there. Well lets start from the beginning.. I was born April 5th 1985 , that makes me 23, at Franklin Square Hospital In Marland.... maybe thats to far back. I have a younger sister who is 19 and a younger brother who is 16... I think lol. I have no clue how to work a computer even though I like to think I do. I've been maried almost 3 years we have a little girl together who will be a year old April 6th .. yes the day after my birthday. I have the best family and friends money can buy lol I mean that a girl can ask for.

I just satred working for Girl life magazine moderating a blog on the internet part time. It's fun and I don't work anywhere else because I'm a stay at home mom so it gives me a little something to look forward to each week. Before I started doing that I was an EMT for Heart to Hart ambo.

I will probably update this at least once a week unless I need to get something off my cheast. I should say now that I have a lot of opinons and I'm not afriad to speak my mind. wheather you agree or not I don't really care. I'm just keeping it real LOL. So enjoy my very first blog and I hope to see you soon

See ya Tobie